M is ME" , J is Crown :
J: i know e feeling
J: is like that
J: you scared to lose them as your friend
J: and
people dun need have a lot of friendsJ: maybe gt a lot la
J: just normal friends
J:
good friends very fewJ: is normal what
J: don't need so many good friend de
J: and one ting you have to know
J: no
matter how good you are with your friendsJ:
if u guys see each other everyday, you'll definitely fightJ: its normal de
M: ya , that true
J: be it big or small
J: is like that de
M: haha ... recently i become very weak also ...
M: a tiny tings will make me worried a lot or cried ... haha ...
J: lol
J: is like that de
J: from what you say hor
J: is my view la
J: you dun have to mind de
J: i feel rite
J: like aft my incident with them
J: they dun like me
J: and because of me
J: they dun like you
J: and like dun treat you like their "good buddy" like last time
J: is like
J: i feel that you all like
being together now just for the sake of being togetherJ:
not as close as last timeJ: M, tell you something
J:
if you wan to continue this friendship horJ:
dun take them too seriouslyJ: if they late jiu late lor
J: let them be late
J: you also can b late
J: its like don't be like
J: too mindful they always late or what
J: just make sure when you wan meet dis time
J: then you one hour later den reach lor
J: cos they always late what
J: even when i was with u all
J: just
dun take whatever they say or do too seriously!J: if not you'll become like they are your master you know
J:
cos u take too seriousJ:
you'll scared dis scared thatJ:
den later become scared they'll dun want you as their friend M: but wt i said is my point of view la ...
M: then they maybe don't like it also
J: actually don't want also don't want lor
( just need time to heal)J: cause
their attitude ah... won't make them have true friend oneJ: really
J: i mean
J: as friend rite
J: you are suppose to
accept each other bad pointsJ:
not to b angry with each other bad pt M: ya , but i ting it's now too late to realise it ba
J:
you're not suppose to mind it deJ: yup
J:
just take it as lesson and MOVE ON M:
i don mind it ...really ...
J:
u doJ: if not why are you so stress?
J: cause you treasure this friendship ma
J: it takes two hand to clap
J:
must try to give and take lorJ: if you state your mind of view
J: they dun like it
J: what can they do?
J: nothing what
J: so nothing wrong what
J: don't like don't like la
J: never mind de what
J: but be careful of what you say lor
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J: let time tell ba
J:
if you think you are right
J:
don't mind what she sayJ:
you dun have to change for someoneJ:
just be urselfJ:
either keep quiet to reduce conflictall that
J: she wan say what in front or behind you
J: just let her say lor
J:
let her say all she wanJ:
one dayJ: all of
her friends will leave her de
J:
because her attitude like thatJ:
sure wont let her have true friends oneJ:
just sucker aroud herJ: once they find
she's uselessJ:
sure dump herJ: just learn from mistakes lor
J:
dun take tings too seriously M
J:
it'll only make u sufferJ:
sometime you have to go through some grand ting to make you grow upJ:
its part of growing upJ:
otherwise you'll never wake upJ:
and leaving in your perfect worldlast 4 sentences is the most meaningful and important one. It is really a good things for us to learn while growing up. It's part of the process of our growing up. By the way, i edited the conversation. I make it shorter by cutting some of the conversation we are gossiping about and edited it to correct English, without short form wordings. However, the content of the conversation is totally the same as the original ones.
This really make me grew up a little. One step closer to become true adult who going to face unlimited stress and unforeseen problems and also, one step further away from the child-ish Me now.
